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Topic: The start of an affair
the runt
(90 Posts)
Posted: 14-Aug-2012 20:58
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Any advice lads it's going to happen for me and a married woman who works near me. I would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance.
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ChewingGum
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:00
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Originally posted by the runt:
Any advice lads it's going to happen for me and a married woman who works near me. I would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance.

Conference call the Nigerians.
RoyalGirl
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:02
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Don't get caught.
Hitch
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:02
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Originally posted by the runt:
Any advice lads it's going to happen for me and a married woman who works near me. I would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance.

I'd have a bit of advice for that married woman you're stalking!
the runt
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:04
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Originally posted by RoyalGirl:
Don't get caught.

It's getting complicated as I work with a cousin of hers. It all started out on a night on the town where sone innocent flirting was going on.
theblack&amber
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:05
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Originally posted by the runt:
Any advice lads it's going to happen for me and a married woman who works near me. I would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance.

The only advice I can give is don't get involved and run a mile if either of ye have kids, it would be seriously unfair and upsetting to them when it eventually blows up in your face when the cousin finds out (and it will).
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Keanes Road
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:05
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Originally posted by the runt:
Any advice lads it's going to happen for me and a married woman who works near me. I would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance.

It's not an affair if you're all ready married to her
the runt
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:06
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Originally posted by Hitch:
I'd have a bit of advice for that married woman you're stalking!

I can assure you it is not stalking. Would u call a lady coming to ur place of work with tight tops and skirts on asking if you were going out tonight as stalking.
Sean Mc Dermotts
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:12
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Originally posted by the runt:

I can assure you it is not stalking. Would u call a lady coming to ur place of work with tight tops and skirts on asking if you were going out tonight as stalking.

i'd call that normal day at work!!
the runt
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:20
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Originally posted by Sean Mc Dermotts:
i'd call that normal day at work!!


But has anyone on here any experience of affairs and what to watch out for. Thanks in advance.
labane1917
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:21
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Exile in Guyville, Liz Phair, Track 10
Just don't go back for seconds as the odds then start to move sharply against you
ChewingGum
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:22
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Originally posted by the runt:
But has anyone on here any experience of affairs and what to watch out for. Thanks in advance.

the husband with a shotgun
murraymarmalade
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:22
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Originally posted by the runt:
But has anyone on here any experience of affairs and what to watch out for. Thanks in advance.
You need to watch out for the husband for starters.
An Fear Rua
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:25
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Originally posted by the runt:
Any advice lads it's going to happen for me and a married woman who works near me. I would appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance.



staycalm
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:44
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Originally posted by the runt:

I can assure you it is not stalking. Would u call a lady coming to ur place of work with tight tops and skirts on asking if you were going out tonight as stalking.

I would call it prostitution
Ozzy
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:48
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Went very badly for Shackleton. Poor guy had to head for South America after he was found grazing in the wrong field.
The Jedi
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 21:54
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Originally posted by the runt:
I can assure you it is not stalking. Would u call a lady coming to ur place of work with tight tops and skirts on asking if you were going out tonight as stalking.

Is it the family business?
Sean Mc Dermotts
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 22:20
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Originally posted by Ozzy:
Went very badly for Shackleton. Poor guy had to head for South America after he was found grazing in the wrong field.

And Shakelton was a far more interesting character than our current romeo!!
zetorisbetter
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 22:59
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I hope the runt lets us know how he got on with her ....
Sledgehammer
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Posted: 14-Aug-2012 23:05
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Originally posted by the runt:
But has anyone on here any experience of affairs and what to watch out for. Thanks in advance.

Best to forget about it, she is your sister after all!!
Bressie
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Posted: 15-Aug-2012 00:01
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It's actually more easy to get caught these days with technology.
Many people will forget to clear incriminating evidence from their phone or pc.
Or they will text the wife by mistake.

Hard not to get caught.
KeepOnHurling
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Posted: 15-Aug-2012 06:21
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If what you post is true (probably not), I'd say all is not well with the girl and her husband. Could be a sh!t storm brewing with you stuck in the middle of it.

Wouldn't advise drinking alcohol anywhere near this woman.

In work just be professional, and get on with it.
tones67
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Posted: 15-Aug-2012 08:22
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Big difference in girl "flirting" in work to her actually wanting an affair. Dont be kidded, you'll only make fool of yourself. Find a girl with no baggage
Man with the Cap
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Posted: 15-Aug-2012 11:09
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Are the Nigerians sweet on her?

Does she like the big bamboo?

Or is she being fitted with blinkers next time out?
The Silver Fox
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Posted: 15-Aug-2012 11:38
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Happened at the last place I worked. Married couple were working on the same Site( Construction). She upstairs, him down stairs, about 50 or so office based staff. The wife and another Girl were quiet friendly, went to Slimming World together, he used to work late as did the other girl and between one thing and another they hooked up. She found emails on his phone and WW3 erupted, slagging matches at work. I was gone from the company at the time, but I did not need to be told anything, they basically played it all out on Facebook. You could log on during the Day and it was all there. They had a Kid and things are messy enough now. A very Dangerous game now, technology is everywhere, you would have to very smart and lucky not to get caught nowadays. I work with a Guy, lives about 4 Hours from London and basically has slept with about 80-100 women over the past 2 Years( No Exaggeration), he has two phones( as well as work), his car is like something out a James Bond film with Secret Compartments for clothes/Phones/Jewellery etc, even though he is an absolute Dog, you would respect him for his creativity/excuse making.

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