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Topic: Meeting up with ex
rebelbunny
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 11:58
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I bumped into my ex over the weekend. Havnt seen him in over 2 years. Hes just moved back from England. we ended up having a bit of a snog. he told me he wants me back. i still have strong feelings for him. the problem is im in a relationship at the moment and we have a 6 month old boy. My head is wrecked from it all.
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tipptopps
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 11:59
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Originally posted by rebelbunny:
I bumped into my ex over the weekend. Havnt seen him in over 2 years. Hes just moved back from England. we ended up having a bit of a snog. he told me he wants me back. i still have strong feelings for him. the problem is im in a relationship at the moment and we have a 6 month old boy. My head is wrecked from it all.

don't do it

leinsterlass
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:04
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Originally posted by rebelbunny:
I bumped into my ex over the weekend. Havnt seen him in over 2 years. Hes just moved back from England. we ended up having a bit of a snog. he told me he wants me back. i still have strong feelings for him. the problem is im in a relationship at the moment and we have a 6 month old boy. My head is wrecked from it all.

r u messing? r mad r what?

ex-boyfriend (and i'm sure he's an ex for a reason) who u snogged (and i'm ignoring the fact that this in itself isn't on) or the father of you're baby who you obviously like enough to be still going out with?!!

i'm sure the ex is lovely and all, but its never a good idea, and i'm sure you already know that

LimerickNomad
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:07
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Originally posted by rebelbunny:

I bumped into my ex over the weekend. Havnt seen him in over 2 years. Hes just moved back from England. we ended up having a bit of a snog. he told me he wants me back. i still have strong feelings for him. the problem is im in a relationship at the moment and we have a 6 month old boy. My head is wrecked from it all.


Are we revisiting ED CASE's underage girlfriend under the bed territory?

On the level, DON'T DO IT!

HALFTIME
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:11
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Originally posted by rebelbunny:
I bumped into my ex over the weekend. Havnt seen him in over 2 years. Hes just moved back from England. we ended up having a bit of a snog. he told me he wants me back. i still have strong feelings for him. the problem is im in a relationship at the moment and we have a 6 month old boy. My head is wrecked from it all.

YOU MUST SORT OUT YOUR HEAD, THINK OF WHATS GOOD FOR YOU AND YOUR SON, ALSO HOW HAPPY YOU ARE AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME IN THE RELATIONSHIP. YOU WOULD NOT BE WITH YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND FOR THE FUN OF IT.
YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOUR EX IS UP TO REALLY AND HES A SELFISH PUP TO TELL YOU HE WANTS YOU BACK.

IVE BEEN THERE BEFORE AND ITS NOT WORTH IT STICK WITH YOUR GUY AND YER SON AND TELL YOUR EX TO SLING HIS HOOK.

leinsterlass
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:13
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Originally posted by LimerickNomad:
Are we revisiting ED CASE's underage girlfriend under the bed territory?

B]


I dont think i even want to know...

Deise_girl
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:21
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Tough one to call, weigh up the REALISTIC pros and cons for going back with ex...If it feels right then go for it!!Somethings obviously wrong with current relationship if ure gonna cheat on him in the first place..
leinsterlass
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:29
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Originally posted by Kylie fan:
Tough one to call, weigh up the [b]REALISTIC pros and cons for going back with ex...If it feels right then go for it!!Somethings obviously wrong with current relationship if ure gonna cheat on him in the first place..

personally think that ex's are just a no go area, its too easy to only remember the good stuff

tipptopps
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:39
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Originally posted by leinsterlass:
personally think that ex's are just a no go area, its too easy to only remember the good stuff

question ya gotta is what kind of s****g goes out of his way to break up a young family
this guy is filth keep well clear

dublingirl
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:43
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Originally posted by Kylie fan:
Tough one to call, weigh up the [b]REALISTIC pros and cons for going back with ex...If it feels right then go for it!!Somethings obviously wrong with current relationship if ure gonna cheat on him in the first place..

Don't believe i'm writing this but -I agree with Kylie Fan

HALFTIME
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:43
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Originally posted by artfoley:
question ya gotta is what kind of s****g goes out of his way to break up a young family
this guy is filth keep well clear

100% IN AGREEMENT

leinsterlass
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:49
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Originally posted by HALFTIME:
100% IN AGREEMENT

no matter how much i loved someone if they were with someone else, especially with a kid involved i wouldn't act on it,

reckon its some kind of a power thing, see how far he can get ya to go for him or something like that

rebelbunny
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:53
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Originally posted by artfoley:
question ya gotta is what kind of s****g goes out of his way to break up a young family
this guy is filth keep well clear

He is not filth, if he was it wouldn't be a problem. he is a really nice decent guy. so is my boyfriend. and i dont want to hurt either.

leinsterlass
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:56
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Originally posted by rebelbunny:
He is not filth, if he was it wouldn't be a problem. he is a really nice decent guy. so is my boyfriend. and i dont want to hurt either.

if it was someone else what would you tell them to do?

meat_teas
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:56
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Why don't you ask your mother for advice?
lilywhite98
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 12:59
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Originally posted by rebelbunny:
He is not filth, if he was it wouldn't be a problem. he is a really nice decent guy. so is my boyfriend. and i dont want to hurt either.

nice?decent?sounds like a real romantic relationship.

tipptopps
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 13:00
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Originally posted by rebelbunny:
He is not filth, if he was it wouldn't be a problem. he is a really nice decent guy. so is my boyfriend. and i dont want to hurt either.

I@m not being funny but if he knows you have a child with tother fella and are happy, then why is he doing this?? these are not the actions of a nice & decent fella
if this was happening to your best mate what would you tell her ??//

Deise_girl
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 13:04
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Originally posted by dublingirl:
Originally posted by Kylie fan:
[b]Tough one to call, weigh up the [b]REALISTIC
pros and cons for going back with ex...If it feels right then go for it!!Somethings obviously wrong with current relationship if ure gonna cheat on him in the first place..

Don't believe i'm writing this but -I agree with Kylie Fan

Its the best way I mean if its not an ex it was gonna be someone else am I right??

Deise Doggy Dogg
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 13:29
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I think you should go with the man with the bigger mickey
dublingirl
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 13:46
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Originally posted by Kylie fan:
Its the best way I mean if its not an ex it was gonna be someone else am I right??
Bang on.

leinsterlass
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 14:09
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Originally posted by dublingirl:
Originally posted by Kylie fan:
[b] Its the best way I mean if its not an ex it was gonna be someone else am I right??

Bang on.

if there's something wrong and you're not getting on with the fella sort that out first, and then decide if you want to get back together with the ex

just a quick thought though does anyone know a couple that broke up properly (none of this one week or taking a break rubbish or just doing cos one of them was heading off travelling) that got back together and lived happily ever after?!!

I dont

dublingirl
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 14:17
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Originally posted by leinsterlass:
if there's something wrong and you're not getting on with the fella sort that out first, and then decide if you want to get back together with the ex

just a quick thought though does anyone know a couple that broke up properly (none of this one week or taking a break rubbish or just doing cos one of them was heading off travelling) that got back together and lived happily ever after?!!

I dont



i know one couple that broke up because they couldn't agree on where to settle down. They got back together about a year later and they are getting married later on in the year. Apart from that no.

Frank Horan
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 14:17
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Originally posted by Deise Doggy Dogg:
I think you should go with the man with the bigger mickey

I think that is the sensible way out , the bigger mickey should get the bird .

tipptopps
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Posted: 06-Aug-2004 14:18
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Originally posted by Frank Horan:
Originally posted by Deise Doggy Dogg:
[b]I think you should go with the man with the bigger mickey


I think that is the sensible way out , the bigger mickey should get the bird .


should'nt that be the bigger langer ?????

TYCO ELECTRONICS ADMIN
(5,384 Posts)
Posted: 06-Aug-2004 14:20
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nO YOU FOOL, THE ONE WITH THE MOST MONEY

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